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Besides work, my only motivation to go out is to check out women's outfits and let my imagination run wild

20 hours ago

I haven't gone out in ages, and I suddenly realized I've gone impotent. I still have sex every day, but I can't reach orgasm. The reason is that I don't have any fresh scenes to imagine. Guess I really can't be a shut-in.

Porn doesn't help: 2D can't build a model—only a 3D person with sound and light that changes with angle works. The 3D models in my memory slowly fade away, so if I don't go out and refresh them, they're gone.

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99291115617 hours ago

The OP mentions relying on looking at women's clothing on the street to maintain sexual fantasies, which can easily cross the line in real life. For example, in enclosed public spaces like subways or shopping malls, staring at someone for a long time, following them, or even secretly taking photos can at best lead to conflict and at worst may violate harassment-related laws. Moreover, pinning sexual arousal entirely on strangers means that if you're stopped or misunderstood, the psychological pressure will only be greater. It would be better to first try to develop other motivations for going out, and then gradually adjust.

降魔剑瓮中捉鳖8 hours ago

You mentioned that 3D models in memory gradually fade away—is there any basis for that?

国际快递集运14 min ago

The core problem is betting all your motivation to go out on visual stimulation—that's hard to sustain. People of different ages and professions naturally have different reasons for going out: some rely on exercise or socializing, others on work. Relying on a single source is too risky, and it's easy to overlook the social boundaries of real life.