I'd like to ask the older male seniors on this forum (40+ preferably, 30+ is fine too): when you were at your current age, did you feel that it was easier to pick up women when you were younger?
My situation right now is that I'm in the upward phase of my career, and my vacation time is quite limited—even during holidays I can't avoid replying to work messages, so I can't completely go off the grid. I really enjoy traveling, but I don't particularly want to go alone, so I always want to find a woman to travel with. The current situation is actually fine—as long as I want to, I can always find a woman to go with. But I don't know if this is an advantage brought by age. I'm in my twenties, and I have okay education, work, and physique, so I can find women. By the time I reach my thirties or forties, the standards for measuring might be different, and the only thing I can bring up might be my job. So should I take advantage of being young now to play around more, and then when I'm 40+ just go fishing and cultivate my character, or should I focus more on self-improvement at this stage and wait until I've accumulated enough before looking for something long-term? (I'm asking this because a woman I chatted with before told me she could travel with me short-term for three to five days, but if it were a long-term arrangement for a month, she generally charges 100k. She's truly top-tier beautiful—figure, looks, education, and service awareness are all top-notch—but I can't afford it right now.)
This varies quite a bit from place to place, so you can't make a blanket statement.