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My lunchbox was still unopened when the colleague at the next table tossed out a joke: "You've been looking so well lately—did you sneak some Japanese Tengsu?" The whole table laughed and then dispersed, leaving me with a question mark in my head. The comment itself was nothing, but over the next two days, I noticed I kept hearing the same phrase in different settings, and everyone's version was different.

The first to speak up was Lao Chen, who sits across from me—in his fifties and always speaks with absolute certainty. He said this kind of thing is "from Japan, so it must be purer," and added that when he traveled to Japan when he was younger, the shelves in drugstores were packed with it. I asked him what exactly was on the shelves and what the packaging said, and he paused for a few seconds before saying it was just that category of stuff. Lao Chen's cla...

That day at the market, the lady selling oysters was scooping water while telling me that okra is good for the stomach and oysters are rich in zinc, and that the two together "men will know once they try it." I nodded while holding my grocery basket, but a very practical question popped into my head: if I just want to understand this kind of claim, where do I even start looking into it? When I got home and opened my computer, I realized what I really wanted to ask wasn't "does it work" but "am I actually comparing ingredients, or am I comparing a capsule."

Let me lay out the question clearly first. Readers often ask: the market talks up okra and oysters as if they're powerful, so once they're made into capsules, is it the same thing? My answer is that the two occupy completely different places in daily life. Okra is a vegetable, oysters are seafood—they show up in my frying pan and soup...

Lin Yanting is the kind of person who treats his suitcase as a second home. He travels more than a dozen times a year, and he could find his way around a hotel room with his eyes closed: the nightstand, the kettle, that armchair that always seats only one person. On the fourth night, he video-called home as usual. On the other end was the living room light, and his wife, Yaqi, was folding laundry while asking if he'd eaten. He said he had—though it was really just a rice ball from the convenience store downstairs.

Yaqi asked if the trip was going smoothly, and he replied, "Same as always." That sentence was like a tiny thorn, stuck in a place neither of them would speak of. She felt he was brushing her off; he felt she didn't understand the silence of a business traveler returning to a room with nothing but walls. They were quiet for a few seconds across the screen, then Yaqi said she h...

It was already past eleven by the time the wedding banquet broke up, and the streetlights along the highway slid backward one stretch at a time. He had his hands on the wheel, I was watching the navigation for him, and the only sound in the car was an old song playing softly on the radio. That kind of moment is usually the best time to say the things you can't bring yourself to say in daylight—maybe because it's dark, maybe because you're both tired and your guard comes down with it.

That night we'd been seated with a few of his college friends, one of whom had just been promoted to manager and spent the whole evening talking about work. Afterward he went quiet, and I assumed it was the drinking. Then he suddenly said, "Do you ever feel like, at this age, everyone's just competing over who can hold out longer?" I didn't answer, because I knew he wasn't talking about his classmates. He w...

It was already past eleven by the time the wedding banquet broke up, and the streetlights along the interchange kept receding one by one. She took off her high heels and set them on the floor mat, saying that after all the toasting tonight, her feet didn't feel like her own anymore. He held the steering wheel and gave a brief "mm," then after a few seconds said that, actually, he'd been thinking about something else the whole evening. She didn't respond, just waited for him to go on.

He said the groom's older brother was in his same graduating class, and his kids were already in elementary school. It wasn't envy—it was that feeling of being chased by time. For the past six months, work projects had come one after another, and on weekends all he wanted to do was lie around; he'd even turned down her suggestion to go hiking three times. She said she had something she wanted to bring up to...

My lunchbox was still unopened when Ah-Hong from the next department tossed out a question: "Have you guys ever heard of Japanese Fuji supplements?" He said it casually, like he was asking about the weather. Old Chen, sitting across from me, put down his chopsticks and said that in all his years in sales, clients had occasionally mentioned this kind of thing, but he never figured out whether it was medicine or food. Little Tsai, who had just finished his military service, jumped in right away, saying he'd seen lots of people asking about it online, and someone had even put together a list, making it sound like you'd regret not buying it. Three people, three ages, three different takes—after listening, I just felt confused, so I decided to go home and break it down myself.

The first thing to unpack was: "Is this medicine?" Old Chen was the most conservative, say...

While we were ordering lunch boxes at noon, Lao Chen from the department next door suddenly blurted out, "Have you guys ever heard of that Japanese Tengsu?" The whole table went quiet for two seconds, and then three different reactions exploded at once. Xiao Wu, sitting across from me, is twenty-seven this year, and he immediately chimed in that he'd scrolled past it on social media, and someone in the comments section had talked about it like it was the real deal. Lao Zhou, sitting diagonally across, is almost fifty, and he just said mildly that he'd been hearing about this kind of thing for over a decade, and every so often it comes back under a new name. Lao Chen himself, while shoveling rice into his mouth, said his wife had looked into it for him a while back, but she gave up halfway through because there were too many conflicting claims and she didn't know...

A lot of people ask me: if you see a strange search history entry for a health supplement on your partner's phone, what should your first sentence be so that a small thing doesn't turn into the beginning of mutual distrust? My answer is simple: don't start by asking "why were you looking this up," start by asking yourself "what am I actually trying to confirm right now." Those two questions sound similar, but they point in completely different directions. The first is an interrogation, and the other person will go on the defensive the moment they hear it. The second turns the focus back on you, giving you a chance to figure out whether what you really care about is that search entry, or the sense of distance behind it—the feeling that "he didn't tell me."

My boyfriend, whom I've been with for years, and I went through exactly this. One Saturday afternoon, he went out to buy coffee and l...

Chen Bojun stood his suitcase against the wall, the hum of the room's air conditioner drowning out the occasional footsteps in the hallway. It was his seventh night on this business trip. He had barely touched the bento on the desk, taking only two bites. His phone screen lit up with a message from his wife: "When are you coming home?" He replied, "Not sure yet," and placed the phone face down on the desk. After a while, he picked it up again and started a video call.

When the call connected, his wife was in the kitchen putting away dishes, the sound of the range hood in the background. She didn't speak right away, only asked if he had eaten. Bojun said he had. She said, "You always say you've eaten." That sentence stung like a needle. He suddenly felt that all the exhaustion he had built up over the past few days was being dismissed, and his tone turned sharp. He said he was working aw...

The weekend Chen Yanting got back from Kansai, he spread everything from his suitcase out on the living room floor. Drugstore receipts, two boxes of throat lozenges, a tin of matcha powder, and a photo he'd taken inside a shop in Shinsaibashi. The photo showed a whole row of shelves, bottles and jars lined up neatly, labels covered in kanji and katakana. At the time, he figured that taking the picture was as good as remembering—he'd study it properly once he was back in Taiwan.

The problem was that when he opened the photo, he realized he hadn't captured a single price tag, nor the ingredient list on the back. The bottles on the top shelf were so washed out by the lighting that he couldn't even make out the product names. He stared at the photo for a long time, remembering only that he'd stood there hesitating for about five minutes while tourists pushed shopping baskets past him and a...